Special
Services at St. Vladimirs
Baptism
- If youve
recently had a child congratulations! Please
click here.
- To schedule a
baptism, please contact Fr. Gregory. Baptisms
are performed principally during office hours, but in an extreme situation could be
scheduled for a time outside of office hours. In
case of an emergency (risk of death) Fr. Gregory will come to you in the hospital. If there is no time to reach Fr. Gregory, and death
is imminent, please click here and perform the
service yourself (an Orthodox Christian must perform this service).
- At a minimum, the
Godparent of the same gender as the child must be an Orthodox Christian.
- Two people who are
married or who could be married in the future cannot be Godparents of the same child.
- The child must
have a Christian name. Please ask Fr. Gregory
if you have questions in this regard.
- It is traditional
for the Godparents to provide a baptismal cross for the child. However, the parish will provide a simple, silver
cross if the Godparents cannot. Crosses
can be purchased form our parish bookstore as well.
- It is necessary to
have a white garment for the child to be clothed in following the baptism. Baptismal garments can be purchased form our parish bookstore
, sewn at home, or a simple white dress
purchased at any clothing store will suffice. Adults
being baptized should contact Fr. Gregory to discuss having a baptismal garment sewn. We have a wonderful seamstress in the parish that
does this at a very reasonable price. Adults
must study the Orthodox Faith with Fr. Gregory before baptism. Please contact him to learn more about adult
catechism.
- In addition to the
baptismal cross, please bring several large towels to the baptism. The parish will provide all other items needed for
the baptism.
- In addition to the
baptismal cross it is also traditional for the Godparents to give the newly-enlightened
Orthodox Christians a gift of an icon. Icons
can be purchased form our parish bookstore or from many
various Orthodox sources.
- Following the
Baptism please request from Fr. Gregory a questionnaire.
When you have filled out the questionnaire please return it to Fr. Gregory. Once you have returned the questionnaire a
baptismal certificate will be issued by the parish. If
you forget to ask Fr. Gregory for the questionnaire you can find it here.
- Baptism guests are
asked to follow the parishs dress code. Women
should wear a skirt or a dress, and cover their heads (a hat or a scarf are perfectly
appropriate). Men should not cover their heads
in the church, and should not wear jeans, T-shirts, or other inappropriately casual
attire. If you have questions in this regard
please ask Fr. Gregory.
- If you have any
other questions, please do not hesitate to contact Fr. Gregory.
All sacraments of the Church are provided to Orthodox Christians
without charge. To require payment is in fact
against the Churchs teachings. However,
one should be aware of the following when preparing for this special service:
- It is traditional
as a thanksgiving to God for His mercy in allowing the sacrament to be performed to make a
donation to the parish. If one is wealthy the
donation should be large. If one is not
wealthy the donation can be small. If one has
no money to spare we ask only for prayers for the parish and its continued existence to be
able to provide the saving Grace of God to those who seek it.
- St.
Vladimirs Choir will gladly sing at your special service if you would like them to. However, the choir asks a donation of $150 if the
service is at the parish church. If the
service will be held in another location they ask a donation of $250. Choir fees go to support our choir fund, which
principally supports our building fund (with a few dollars going to make copies of sheet
music, etc., that the choir has need of). If
you prefer to have the service chanted by a Reader there is no set fee, but it would be
kind to make a small donation to the Reader for his or her time. If you choose to have the choir sing, please
contact our Choir Director, Mr. Roman Vershynin - rlvershynin@gmail.com to schedule the choirs
performance ONLY AFTER having set the date of the service in question with Fr. Gregory. If you prefer that Fr. Gregory make the choir
arrangements for you please request this of him.
Marriage
- To schedule a
marriage, please contact Fr. Gregory. Marriages
are performed on Sundays and some holidays following the Divine Liturgy, or during office
hours. Marriages are not performed during
fasting periods, and during the week following Nativity and Pascha. Marriages are never performed at St.
Vladimirs on Saturdays. In extreme cases
(impending and prolonged military deployment, for instance) please contact Fr. Gregory.
- Please schedule
the marriage with Fr. Gregory BEFORE scheduling the reception hall, etc.
- Ideally there
should be at least one groomsman and one bridesmaid who are Orthodox Christians.
- Pre-marriage
counseling is mandatory. Please contact Fr.
Gregory to schedule counseling no less than 3 months before your marriage (6 months would
be better!).
-
Please bring this marriage questionnaire (English / Russian) to the first counseling
appointment filled out as fully as you can. We will complete the form at the first appointment.
If you have been married in the past a divorce decree must be presented before a marriage will be performed at St. Vladimir's.
If you were married in the Orthodox Church in the past a Church Divorce decree must also be presented.
- A wedding
rehearsal is mandatory. If all members of the
wedding party can be present this is ideal, but the rehearsal must take place in any case. If the wedding is scheduled for a Sunday, Saturday
morning is a nice time for a rehearsal. Please
contact Fr. Gregory to schedule your rehearsal.
- Although ideally
both spouses would be Orthodox Christians, the Church allows its children to marry other
Christians who profess belief in God the Holy Trinity.
This includes principally Roman Catholic and some Protestant Christians. If the non-Orthodox spouse does not fall into these
categories it is necessary for that person to become an Orthodox Christian. Please discuss this with Fr. Gregory at the
earliest possible opportunity.
- Please remind your
wedding guests that clapping following the marriage is not at all traditional in the
Orthodox Church.
- Wedding guests are
asked to follow the parishs dress code. Women
should wear a skirt or a dress, and cover their heads (a hat or a scarf are perfectly
appropriate). Men should not cover their heads
in the church, and should not wear jeans, T-shirts, or other inappropriately casual
attire. If you have questions in this regard
please ask Fr. Gregory.
- It is not
necessary to have a wedding program, but the parish has a very nice source for these. Please contact Fr. Gregory if you are interested.
- Please provide Fr.
Gregory with the wedding rings no less than one hour before the wedding. If possible please provide them before the Divine
Liturgy on the day of your wedding.
- It is traditional,
although not necessary to have a set of wedding icons. These can be purchased form our parish bookstore
, or from various Orthodox sources.
- It is not uncommon
for couples to need some pastoral counseling once they have been married for a time, or
following the birth of their first child, etc. Please
do not hesitate to contact Fr. Gregory in this regard.
There is no shame in asking for help or for counseling, and all counseling is
completely confidential.
- If you have any
other questions, please do not hesitate to contact Fr. Gregory.
All sacraments of the Church are provided to Orthodox Christians
without charge. To require payment is in fact
against the Churchs teachings. However,
one should be aware of the following when preparing for this special service:
- It is traditional
as a thanksgiving to God for His mercy in allowing the sacrament to be performed to make a
donation to the parish. If one is wealthy the
donation should be large. If one is not
wealthy the donation can be small. If one has
no money to spare we ask only for prayers for the parish and its continued existence to be
able to provide the saving Grace of God to those who seek it.
- St.
Vladimirs Choir will gladly sing at your special service if you would like them to. However, the choir asks a donation of $150 if the
service is at the parish church. If the
service will be held in another location they ask a donation of $250. Choir fees go to support our choir fund, which
principally supports our building fund (with a few dollars going to make copies of sheet
music, etc., that the choir has need of). If
you prefer to have the service chanted by a Reader there is no set fee, but it would be
kind to make a small donation to the Reader for his or her time. If you choose to have the choir sing, please
contact our Choir Director, Mr. Roman Vershynin - rlvershynin@gmail.com to schedule the choirs
performance ONLY AFTER having set the date of the service in question with Fr. Gregory. If you prefer that Fr. Gregory make the choir
arrangements for you please request this of him specifically.
Funeral
- If you have
experienced a death in your family (whether locally or somewhere else) please contact Fr.
Gregory immediately. Special prayers must be
read over the body of the newly-reposed, and these can be read only by an Orthodox priest.
- Funerals are
traditionally served on the third day following repose.
The day of repose counts as the first day in the Orthodox reckoning. For example, if the person in question passes away
on Wednesday, the funeral would traditionally be performed on Friday. Due to families being dispersed over large
distances (sometimes throughout the world) it is possible to postpone this for a short
period, but not for a prolonged period. Please
contact Fr. Gregory with questions.
- The parish
suggests that if your loved one is to be buried in the Ann Arbor area Forest Hill cemetery
be utilized. This is St. Vladimirs
unofficial cemetery, and most of our parishioners are buried together there. If you plan to have your loved one buried at a
monastery or some other cemetery away from Ann Arbor, the parish would be happy to help
you arrange this. In the future, God-willing,
the parish will have its own cemetery.
- Orthodox
Christians are not cremated (unless living in Japan or some other country where this is
mandated by the state). Funerals cannot be
served over the ashes of someone who has bee cremated.
- Funeral guests are
asked to follow the parishs dress code. Women
should wear a skirt or a dress, and cover their heads (a hat or a scarf are perfectly
appropriate). Men should not cover their heads
in the church, and should not wear jeans, T-shirts, or other inappropriately casual
attire. If you have questions in this regard
please ask Fr. Gregory.
- In our days
funeral guests often like to have the opportunity to make a donation to a charity or
non-profit organization that was important to the newly-reposed. If you would like such donations to be made to the
parish please alert Fr. Gregory to this.
- If you have any
other questions, please do not hesitate to contact Fr. Gregory.
All sacraments of the Church are provided to Orthodox Christians
without charge. To require payment is in fact
against the Churchs teachings. However,
one should be aware of the following when preparing for this special service:
- It is traditional
as a thanksgiving to God for His mercy in allowing the service to be performed to make a
donation to the parish. If one is wealthy the
donation should be large. If one is not
wealthy the donation can be small. If one has
no money to spare we ask only for prayers for the parish and its continued existence to be
able to provide the saving Grace of God to those who seek it.
- If you would like
to make a donation to the parish in remembrance of your departed loved one please contact
our parish Treasurer, Eugene Poplavsky at 734-730-2683 or treasurer@stvladimiraami.org.
- St.
Vladimirs Choir will gladly sing at your special service if you would like them to. However, the choir asks a donation of $150 if the
service is at the parish church. If the
service will be held in another location they ask a donation of $250. Choir fees go to support our choir fund, which
principally supports our building fund (with a few dollars going to make copies of sheet
music, etc., that the choir has need of). If
you prefer to have the service chanted by a Reader there is no set fee, but it would be
kind to make a small donation to the Reader for his or her time. If you choose to have the choir sing, please
contact our Choir Director, Mr. Roman Vershynin - rlvershynin@gmail.com to schedule the choirs
performance ONLY AFTER having set the date of the service in question with Fr. Gregory. If you prefer that Fr. Gregory make the choir
arrangements for you please request this of him specifically.
Pannykhida
- If you have
experienced a death in your family (whether locally or somewhere else) please contact Fr.
Gregory immediately. Special prayers must be
read over the body of the newly-reposed, and these can be read only by an Orthodox priest.
- Pannykhidas are
served on the following days following the repose of an Orthodox Christian: 3rd
(if you are unable to attend the funeral, which is usually done on the 3rd
day), 9th, 40th. In
addition, pannykhidas should be served annually on the day of repose.
- Orthodox
Christians are not cremated (unless living in Japan or some other country where this is
mandated by the state). If an Orthodox
Christian is voluntarily cremated no pannykhida can be served until after the 40th
day.
- Pannykhida guests
are asked to follow the parishs dress code. Women
should wear a skirt or a dress, and cover their heads (a hat or a scarf are perfectly
appropriate). Men should not cover their heads
in the church, and should not wear jeans, T-shirts, or other inappropriately casual
attire. If you have questions in this regard
please ask Fr. Gregory.
- If you have any
other questions, please do not hesitate to contact Fr. Gregory.
All sacraments of the Church are provided to Orthodox Christians
without charge. To require payment is in fact
against the Churchs teachings. However,
one should be aware of the following when preparing for this special service:
- It is traditional
as a thanksgiving to God for His mercy in allowing the service to be performed to make a
donation to the parish. If one is wealthy the
donation should be large. If one is not
wealthy the donation can be small. If one has
no money to spare we ask only for prayers for the parish and its continued existence to be
able to provide the saving Grace of God to those who seek it.
- If you would like
to make a donation to the parish in remembrance of your departed loved one please contact
our parish Treasurer, Eugene Poplavsky at 734-730-2683 or treasurer@stvladimiraami.org.
- St.
Vladimirs Choir will gladly sing at your special service if you would like them to. However, the choir asks a donation of $150 if the
service is at the parish church. If the
service will be held in another location they ask a donation of $250. Choir fees go to support our choir fund, which
principally supports our building fund (with a few dollars going to make copies of sheet
music, etc., that the choir has need of). If
you prefer to have the service chanted by a Reader there is no set fee, but it would be
kind to make a small donation to the Reader for his or her time. If you choose to have the choir sing, please
contact our Choir Director, Mr. Roman Vershynin - rlvershynin@gmail.com to schedule the choirs
performance ONLY AFTER having set the date of the service in question with Fr. Gregory. If you prefer that Fr. Gregory make the choir
arrangements for you please request this of him specifically.
Moleben
- A moleben is
served when an Orthodox Christian has any special need or request, or in thanksgiving for
Gods aid and mercy.
- Molebens are
served at St. Vladimirs during office hours or in an emergency. Please contact Fr. Gregory to make an appointment.
- Moleben guests are
asked to follow the parishs dress code. Women
should wear a skirt or a dress, and cover their heads (a hat or a scarf are perfectly
appropriate). Men should not cover their heads
in the church, and should not wear jeans, T-shirts, or other inappropriately casual
attire. If you have questions in this regard
please ask Fr. Gregory.
- If you have any
other questions, please do not hesitate to contact Fr. Gregory.
All sacraments of the Church are provided to Orthodox Christians
without charge. To require payment is in fact
against the Churchs teachings. However,
one should be aware of the following when preparing for this special service:
- It is traditional
as a thanksgiving to God for His mercy in allowing the service to be performed to make a
donation to the parish. If one is wealthy the
donation should be large. If one is not
wealthy the donation can be small. If one has
no money to spare we ask only for prayers for the parish and its continued existence to be
able to provide the saving Grace of God to those who seek it.
- St.
Vladimirs Choir will gladly sing at your special service if you would like them to. However, the choir asks a donation of $150 if the
service is at the parish church. If the
service will be held in another location they ask a donation of $250. Choir fees go to support our choir fund, which
principally supports our building fund (with a few dollars going to make copies of sheet
music, etc., that the choir has need of). If
you prefer to have the service chanted by a Reader there is no set fee, but it would be
kind to make a small donation to the Reader for his or her time. If you choose to have the choir sing, please
contact our Choir Director, Mr. Roman Vershynin - rlvershynin@gmail.com to schedule the choirs
performance ONLY AFTER having set the date of the service in question with Fr. Gregory. If you prefer that Fr. Gregory make the choir
arrangements for you please request this of him specifically.
Any Other Special Service
- Other Special
Services are served at St. Vladimirs during office hours or in an emergency. Please contact Fr. Gregory to make an appointment.
- Special Service
guests are asked to follow the parishs dress code.
Women should wear a skirt or a dress, and cover their heads (a hat or a scarf are
perfectly appropriate). Men should not cover
their heads in the church, and should not wear jeans, T-shirts, or other inappropriately
casual attire. If you have questions in this
regard please ask Fr. Gregory.
- If you have any
other questions, please do not hesitate to contact Fr. Gregory.
All sacraments of the Church are provided to Orthodox Christians
without charge. To require payment is in fact
against the Churchs teachings. However,
one should be aware of the following when preparing for this special service:
- It is traditional
as a thanksgiving to God for His mercy in allowing the service to be performed to make a
donation to the parish. If one is wealthy the
donation should be large. If one is not
wealthy the donation can be small. If one has
no money to spare we ask only for prayers for the parish and its continued existence to be
able to provide the saving Grace of God to those who seek it.
- St.
Vladimirs Choir will gladly sing at your special service if you would like them to. However, the choir asks a donation of $150 if the
service is at the parish church. If the
service will be held in another location they ask a donation of $250. Choir fees go to support our choir fund, which
principally supports our building fund (with a few dollars going to make copies of sheet
music, etc., that the choir has need of). If
you prefer to have the service chanted by a Reader there is no set fee, but it would be
kind to make a small donation to the Reader for his or her time. If you choose to have the choir sing, please
contact our Choir Director, Mr. Roman Vershynin - rlvershynin@gmail.com to schedule the choirs
performance ONLY AFTER having set the date of the service in question with Fr. Gregory. If you prefer that Fr. Gregory make the choir
arrangements for you please request this of him specifically.
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